Monthly Archives: June 2009

Not as penny-wise, but still not pound-foolish


My car is in the shop.  Remember a few weeks ago when my car got hit in a parking lot?  Well, the stars finally aligned and I got things coordinated with the insurance company, the repair place, and the car rental establishment to fix my car starting today.  It will hopefully be done by Friday.

In the meantime, I am driving a tin can on wheels rented Chevy Cobalt.

Look, my car is not particularly fancy.  It is not a luxury brand.  But after one day of driving El Craptastico (I name all my cars- this pet name seemed fitting for the Cobalt) I miss all the little touches that make me love my car.

Such as:

  • the ability to change radio stations with a button on the steering wheel
  • a steering wheel that adjusts upward high enough that it does not graze my knees
  • a cupholder deep enough to accommodate a standard-sized soda can without threatening to tip over
  • automatic door locks
  • automatic windows
  • automatic side mirror adjustors
  • automatic anything, really

What’s funny is that I distinctly remember, when I was in the market for my current car, thinking that it was silly to pay for such “extras”.  At the time, there were really only two options packages available on my car: the one I got, and the one fancier than I got.  So I didn’t have to choose, individually, whether I wanted the sunglasses case that drops down from the ceiling, or the cd player- they were included in the base package.  But I remember thinking that if I could have paid a couple hundred bucks less to NOT have those options, I would have.

Now, of course, I cannot imagine being so penny pinching when making a major purchase like a car.  It’s not like I’m planning to jump into deluxe extras like exotic wood trims or heated seats with my next car purchase or anything, but in retrospect the value I’ve gotten from these seemingly  “extra” features like the auto-lock button key fob thingy have DEFINITELY been worth a couple hundred bucks.

I suppose this is part of growing up, becoming more financially stable, and feeling less panicky about comparatively minor expenses.  These days, I occasionally spring for the diet coke when I go out to lunch and don’t mentally berate myself for spending the $1.19.  I buy ground turkey from Whole Foods instead of the discount grocer because it tastes a lot better.  Recently, I purchased a plane ticket that was $25 more than the cheapest flight I found, simply because it took off at a more convenient time.

Seriously, what kind of money-burning maniac have I become?  If I’m this way at 30, what will 40 bring?  Ordering something other than the least-expensive glass of wine on the menu?  Buying socks from a place other than Target?  God forbid, a moonroof?  The mind just reels.


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New digs


A few months ago, our friend Smallchou gchatted me in the middle of the day:

“If there was ever a time to buy pseudostoops.com,” he said, “this is probably it- there’s a craaaaazy sale going on and you can get the domain plus a year of hosting for practically nothing.”

Well, whenever Smallchou tells me to do something tech-related, I usually obey.  After all, the man created an iPhone app that got featured on those ubiqutous ads that are on the back pages of all the major magazines and newspapers these days.

Suffice it to say, he knows a lot more about this stuff than I do.  Plus, I like shopping for things on sale.

So I bought pseudostoops.com, then didn’t think too much more about it.  I sort of mentioned to John that I aspired to learn how to code in WordPress, so that I could build my own site, but I knew that project was going to (a) take a long time (b) be very frustrating for me and (c) probably end up looking sucky, so I didn’t do anything about it for a while.

Fast forward to four weeks ago: my birthday.  John is an exemplary birthday-planner, and when I woke up on my birthday, there was a neatly-wrapped stack of presents sitting by my bed.  He told me to open them in order, starting with the top.  So I opened, in order: socks (tradition: he always gets me socks for every occasion, a carryover from my teaching days when my personal fashion sense was expressed largely through silly socks); an amazing fleece jacket to replace the one I had that was literally falling apart; and a duffel bag (he called that one a “Homer bowling ball gift” because we’re both using it for an upcoming trip- we really needed a new bag).

Then, at the bottom of the stack, I noticed a note.

“Open my laptop right now,” it said.

Puzzling.

I started to get out of bed, and he reached down to his side of the bed and pulled out his computer.  I opened it up, and what should I see?

This website, fully built.

I mean, seriously, is he a champ, or what?  He figured out how to use wordpress.org, he designed it, and he even put “happy birthday to pseudo” in the tagline.  He doesn’t blog, doesn’t always get why I like doing this, but he knew it was important to me, so he secretly spent hours building something I’d offhandedly mentioned that I wanted.  He’s going to have a hard time topping this gift next year.

For the past few weeks, we’ve been playing around with some small changes, figuring out how to migrate the archives over here, and this weekend, we decided it was ready to go.

So now here we are! Welcome to the new pseudostoops!  We’re going to be making some minor adjustments, probably, as we go forward, but from now on, this is where you’ll find me.  Change your feed readers, bookmarks, etc.  And feel free to leave a comment for John telling him what a nice husband he is for doing this.


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